To Mark, With All Our Love

Imogen Ward

29th April 2024

Mark has been a close friend, colleague and mentor to me for over 20 years. From our time when we first met as part of the DEC to when 7 years ago, he left his beloved Red Cross to join Tobin Aldrich and myself in the newly formed consultancy practice Astarita Aldrich Ward.  

Tobin always laughed that only Mark and I could actually ignore the rule of the alphabet and put his name first. Technically of course Aldrich should come before Astarita. Mark and I just thought Astarita Aldrich Ward sounded better. And it did. We were right. We often were. 

The search side of our business had been Mark’s idea all along. Fundraising leaders finding other fundraising leaders had been something that came naturally to Mark. For many, many years every charity recruitment agency in the UK bent his ear for recommendations on roles and his instinct for talent meant that he was generally pretty astute to landing the right people for the right role. So he kind of knew this would fly. 

I am not saying that the actual translating of this idea to a proper company was easy. It wasn’t. We had to learn loads and we were lucky to get some of the best search people in the business to help us. But the core of it - the authenticity of what we knew was right - was our North Star. And it worked. AAW’s Search and Interim service will continue to be one of Mark’s many, many brilliant contributions to our sector. 

Professionally, Mark was inspired and energised by three things. Firstly, the Red Cross movement and all that entailed. Whether that’s a humanitarian response thousands of miles away or a crisis closer to home. 

When I worked with him as part of the DEC someone said to me (when Mark was being particularly truculent) “when Mark bleeds it ain’t red. It’s Red Cross”. And it was true. Mark was always fixated on doing what was best for humanity and delivering aid as his axle, and he was always convinced that the role of the Red Cross in an emergency was key. So of course they deserved all the money!  He loved the Red Cross Movement  - he lived and breathed its values and history, and was entranced by all its many incarnations. Even when he left, he was still part of it. The blood running through him was Red Cross. 

The loss of Mark's late wife, Gill, hit him hard and when some years later he found love and laughter again with Angie everyone was so happy for him. When Gill was coming to the end of her life she was treated by the St Joseph’s Hospice in Hackney. It triggered for Mark a deep connection to the cause, serving on the board of St Joseph’s and then later St Clare’s in Harlow. He did so much for the movement and I know it’s stronger thanks to his love and determination. 

Finally Fundraising. Or rather Fundraisers. When Mark moved from being a Trade Unionist to the Charity Sector he really did bring something very different. Mark was a working class young man who had left school at 15 with very few qualifications. Smart, cocky and determined to have his voice heard in a sector which, like the rest of British society, really wanted the Marks of the world to conform and be quiet. But Mark couldn't be quiet. And as he got more confident he got louder. And it was Fundraisers that became his cause. Fundraisers who he loved and roared for and would always, always champion. Fundraisers were Mark’s life’s work. 

Mark raised loads and loads of money for the causes he worked for in his career - billions of dollars in fact. He won countless awards, was the Chair of many, many committees and institutions and even received an OBE in recognition of his work. But I think the thing he was proudest of was the teams of Fundraisers he led and inspired to not only deliver the greatest for the charity they were working for, but to achieve greatness for themselves. 

It’s impossible to quantify how many lives Mark touched in this way. How many individuals he inspired, encouraged and propelled  - many are now CEOs of some of the biggest charities in the world. All of the people he touched will be remembering him now. Mark was one of those unique people who changed your life from simply being in his presence. 

Mark - all of us at AAW loved you very much and will miss you deeply.  We are having to deal with the unimaginable and navigating the next few days and weeks will be hard. But we were all blessed to be close to you personally and have you as part of our small company trying in your words “to do good stuff for good people fighting the good fight”.

And do you know what? Even if your surname had started with a Z -  your name would have always been first.